I was flattered by his attention, but i couldnt seem to enjoy thr sex no matter how many different things we tried. I felt like a failure. He was so handsome and tried hard to give me pleasure. My eyes were into him but i felt no passion. To answer the question, when a guy takes your arm and points to his throbbing cock, you can pretty much tell hes gay and into you.
Theres no guessing what comes next. Pardon the pun. Flirt with him. Don't be a creep about it.
Just ease in. Ask him out or offer your number "I wanna see you again. Let's stay in touch. This advice works for all gender dynamics. Then look back, is he still looking? Nowadays though depending on where you live it is perfectly acceptable for a guy to ask another guy out on a date. You know, when I first started dating I used to do this deep research project before I even made a move. Observe body language. I spent no so much energy finding out the guys sexuality I pretty much became obsessed with them.
Then, after breaking up with my second boyfriend, I went through an annoying nihilist phase when I thought everything was meaningless and I stopped giving fucks about anything. And I started just asking men out regardless of whether or not I knew. Most of the population is straightn, unfortunately, and so that led to a lot of failures.
And now I just stick to that. If the guy is straight, cool we can be friends. If the guy is straight and homophobic I dodged a bullet. If the guy is gay then yay. So this has incentivized me to give even fewer fucks about doing my research. There are some definite signs, but no guarantees. Here are a couple:. Have you seen it? How do you tell if a guy is gay and into you? Uhm, first of all, tune up your gaydar son. Some guys may like you as a person, but are not gay. Some guys may be gay, but not into you.
Gaydar is something I believe all gay people are born with. I can't ever remember not being able to tell who was gay and who wasn't gay or who was gamie and who would reject me. Even when a guy had a girlfriend, I could tell he was gay. I may not have made a move in on him, but I knew he was gay. Sometimes I just wait.
A couple years may have passed, but they eventually came out. In discussion after the blessed event, I may say, oh hell, I knew that when I saw you. It could come down to the quality of conversation in the early stages of chatting online. Sound familiar? Here are some tips for sorting the frank from the fickle. She probably has her hazel eyes and quirky hair cut set on other sites.
It goes without saying that you should be wary of anyone you meet online who seems overly pushy to meet up straight away. Here, however, you could interpret gesture as whether or not they show willing to meet up for a date. Still, the posts are very quick for newbies. May just you please extend them a little from next time? Thank you for the post. I've been chatting with this guy I meet online for a month now. We've actually meet each other once after the 1st week of talking.
It wasn't a date we just wanted to see each other in person. We still text everyday but he never mentions anything about going out, meeting up to get to know each other better. He will text me 1st for the most part then after a few texts back and fourth he will stop texting, but if I go online to chat with other friends or see what people are talking about on my news feed, I see him online, I just don't say anything about it. I'm beginning to think he talks to me when he is bored or is trying to feed his ego.
Oddly, he told me after a couple weeks of talking that he liked me a lot and hoped I liked him as much t, how he wants to care for me and he wants to see where this goes between us. We'll his actions sure changed. We went from texting everyday talking about everything from past relationships, what we want from a spouse, life, family and joking around lasting for hours to the we hours of the morning, to a mere hey, how are you, what are you doing and no response after those things.
It seems to be a waste of time to continue to converse with someone that judging by his actions must not want to hold a conversation or seems to only hit me up when it's convenient for him. I think the next time he text me I simply wont respond or waste my time with a mediocre minute or two convo only to not be replied back to afterward. Do you think my assumptions are right? I've loved a guy online for 3 years so far and he tells me he loves me sometimes. He loves teasing me and making me mad! It gets annoying sometimes but i do like it but then he doesn't care about me as much as i do about him.
He doesn't ask much questions. He doesn't know me but i know everything bout him. Weird huh? I wish he loved me. I love that prick so much ahaha. I utilized to receive on top of existence however of late We have built up some sort of opposition. Hi everyone-I'm the original author of this article. Thank you for all the stories!
I appreciated and loved reading them all. Keep them coming! I've been with my boyfriend met him online for about 6 years and we are still as crazy for each other as the day we met. I met a guy about 2 months ago on facebook. He said hi and we hit it off , it was funny i teased him a lot. His shy were both French so we talked about France. Only problem his in France I'm far away in the U.
S omg his like well it was fun. He talked about parites , hobbies , and friends guys night out ll. I never spoked to him again cuz , I found out he tells all the girls the same thing as me.
Finding out if a guy likes you can be tricky and even a bit scary. However, there If he is genuinely interested in you, see if he wants to go on a date. If he's not. Once you have figured out that you would like to date this guy, another important question arises. How can you tell if he likes you? Here are.
I nevered liked him as a friend ,i hate to admit i fell for him his nice charming and so sweet. Now he wants to talk to me again i stoped the whole convo cuz he lied he says i'm over reactting omg. Dunno what to think of him or anything , should i give him a chance or not? He swings both ways as well, And.. I just wanted to know how to get his attention.
We've been talking for three days, and he'll fall asleep with me at the computer. Pathetic of me, right? Well, Anyway, I just want to know how to get his attention. I'm not sure what's really going on in my "relationship" right now with this guy I like online. The beginning of our friendship was a messy one and things have barely cleared up a bit.
So we started out as friends online while we both were in relationships that were long distance years ago. We weren't close then and we contacted each other constantly for only periods of times since then. We would usually talk to each other a lot for a few weeks and then stop completely for a few months and then something happens and we end up getting in touch once again!
So we got back in touch around last year of August? And ever since then a lot has happened. I liked another guy during that time in reality but then fell in love with my online guy friend in the end? Anyways the thing is he was in the process of ending a bad relationship and when I told him that I liked him it was the worse timing of our lives. One thing lead to another and we started talking daily and got close.
Sometimes he would slip in the beginning and tell me he "misses me" or thought I was "cute" but ever since I made fun of him about saying those cheesy things he's stopped completely. So here we are talking to each other almost every day for the past 7 months. We only take breaks when he's spending time with his family but either than that he usually calls me in the mornings and we talk throughout the whole day until we both go to bed at night. So does this guy like me? I've told him I liked him and I wanted to date him and be with him but so far he's told me he wants to hang out with me in person to make sure that we get along and he's at least somewhat attracted to me then.
I mean I don't mind that but for now I'm just really confused at what we are. So far I've gone on at least two dates and he hasn't at all, he knows that I'm still considering myself single and I do go on dates when I'm asked out. He doesn't complain but most of the time when I come home after my date he would ask me a lot of questions on how it went. Also he always makes fun of me! And I hate it!!! Sometimes he even yells at me, well it sounds like he's yelling.
Any who what is up with him? Does he like me or what? So, there's this guy and I've been talking to him for about 8 months now. We started off as casual friends, talking about various subjects, then the relationship between us progressed and now we can talk about anything and be totally open with one another. He calls me a cute nickname, is very protective of me and becomes easily jealous when I talk of FAKE guy crushes I have. He is constantly leaving me messages when I'm not online.. Recently, he asked for a picture of me, which I am slightly nervous about..
Does the behaviour he has shown me so far mean he's interested in me? I guess I fell for someone online whom I should not have.
Even if that person said he likes me but he hardly fulfilled a single sign above I met this guy in youtube, he found me actually We both have a lot in common and we usually fight because of religion, personal stuff, but its what normal friends usually do Anyways, there was this time where he told me that he liked me it was last year I guess I actually friend zoned him, but I do like him The thing is We both live in different countries and I don't want to have a relationship with someone I haven't met IRLife I check his youtube videos a lot of times, well not much cause he only got a few vids.
There are some times when I don't feel comfortable with him because were far away and it just makes me sad He is also kind of protective There was one time when he thought I was stalking him. But I would feel the same way too if he were stalking me Were still chatting by the way, its nice that he trusts me I'm just one year younger than him which is not much. So I met a really really awesome guy online and we chat for hours on end almost everyday I would love to meet him, but I can't and it's so hard to tell if he likes me or not from just our chats. I think he knows that I like him, but he still comes back everyday to talk to me so that's good I'm glad he's not creeped out by my crush on him, but I'm torn.
On one hand, if he didn't have an interest in me, why would he come back? I type long messages and he types one word messags Mm, well He lives in Italy, and I live in America, but we try to connect whenever we can, even if it's just a 'love ya' or 'I won't be on this afternoon, I'll miss you! I am now 30 but when I was 20, I had met someone that I fell hard and fast in a span of mths. The first time we chatted, we talked for 7hrs straight.
Obviously, we hit it off. We kinda had the feeling that we met someone "special". Anyway so we kept in contact, wrote letters, emails, exchanged pictures. After a couple of months of talking, we decided to take each other off the market, so to speak. Soon after that, we fell for each other. I was young, just starting my life, he was older in the military, already had his career established but that didn't bother me. We just had amazing chemistry and always put in each other in stitches from laughing. We had talked about me going overseas to visit him.
I had my passport and everything read to go but something happened and then I wasn't able to. We were both disappointed but we didn't let it sway us. We knew he was going to be back home at the end of the year. We still chatted and allowed that time to develop an intense connection.
Eventually, crappy timing, he didn't have access to the messenger like he used too. So we talked less than we got accustomed too. We still sent emails but they weren't as long either. So overtime, we had a lapse in our communication. I didn't really let that affect me until he finally came back stateside. He was now home. We still talked, don't get me wrong but it wasn't like every day.
Didn't want the pressure to be there when we did meet. I didn't feel like we were "together" in that sense. Again, due to an unfortunate circumstances, I couldn't go see him as we planned. That hurt like hell and I'm sure he hurt too. However, if given the chance to do it all over again, I would, even with what I know now would happen 2x.
Life isn't fair sometimes and can give you a cruel hand. So sometimes on-line relationship can work, and sometimes they don't. If someone likes you or has feelings they'll show it. Prove it to you.
When I start to put myself don't he quickly disagrees with me. It came out of nowhere. So how do you sort the potential boyfriends from those who just want to be friends? Here, however, you could interpret gesture as whether or not they show willing to meet up for a date. I find that it is so scary.
Men don't process emotions like women do. They're more inclined to take things in slowly. Sometimes you'll meet someone and you click right away and you're practically inseparable. Others, it takes more time. Not the person themselves. Be careful, don't let yourself be played for a fool. Don't rush into to the arms of someone you meet on-line. If you like someone and things fall in place down the line. Go for it. But do it slowly and cautiously. Yes, it's possible to find love on-line but sometimes in my case, fate plays a cruel hand. I met this great german guy online.
We are having our anniversary next month. He is so great and spends almost most of his time talking to me. He sends me sms everymorning and night to wish me well. He loves me and he calls me a cute name. Iam crazy about him. He has the cutest voice ever. If theres anyone there like us, plz hang in there. Online relationships really work. We always chat every week days excluding week-ends cause he has a lot of house chores to do, but i understands him.
We always misses each other even we always use to chat everyday.. I met this guy online over a year and half ago, we chat all the time and we became really good friends, we talked bot meeting and building something beyond friendship but once we did we stop joking and laughing I met this guy on Internet,at first I did not want to chat with him but he kept buggin me till I started chatting with him en told me that he broke up with his Gf a few months back ,he said he was interested to see me en he is coming in oct to see me about a few days ago his Gf sent me a friend request en to my shock she still has all their photos posted on her chat screen but the two are not friends on askin the guy he told me to block her coz she was jst being childish then I decided to open another page en chat with this guy without him known it is me thn he was suspicious at first but later he got used to the fact that the new chatter isn't me en he also wanted to chat with her but WAT am so confused about is that is the guy single or not coz I trusted him at first but my trust for him is all gone and the enthusiasm of seeing him is jst not there anymore.
Okay, so I met this guy on facebook but never added him. As he kept sending me friend requests again and again, i ended up sending him a message to stop. Some how we started talking for a few days. Later on he told me how he doesn't use facebook either and will be deactivating it soon and asked me to add him on msn as he was on from facebook for soo many days because of me. After talking to him he seemed like a nice and decent guy, i then thought of adding him.
We talked on msn for almost a 8 months, and became such good friends in such a short period of time. He told me about himself, his family, friends, dislikes, likes etc Then he asked me if it was ok, if he could text me and asked me for my number and i then gave it to him. We texted eachother but never called. When he asked me for my number he also asked me if we could meet because he wanted to see me in real life [We just saw eachothers display pic and Never asked eachother to show their pics or asked to come on cam or anything like that.
We are even in the same city and his house is like 5 mins drive from mine]. Anyways, we some how arranged a day and planned on spending some time together and before meeting me he asked me if it was ok if he could kiss me.
When i asked why, he was like who wouldn't want to kiss you. I kept on making excuses on not to kiss him. I even told him i would only kiss one guy and that'll be the one whom i marry. I even told him i never kissed a guy before or let anyone and he was like i'll teach you. Lol that was really sweet i wish i could learn but then my ego kept telling my heart to say no. At first i thought of saying yes but then i just said it depends on the moment.
I also told him we will meet but that will be the first and last time. After that we wont see eachother. After that we still chatted and texted and he asked me if we could meet again but for some reason i had to go out of town, i told him if God wishes we'll meet again.
Now since im in a different place he can't reply to my texts and he told me why and i completely understand why he can't. But even if i text him he replys on msn as we still talk there.
So not to worry. But i'm confused, actually what happened that caused me to be confused was, [ever since i'm gone away he's been asking me when i'll be back like soo many times] Okay so what happened was we were talking the other day on msn and he asked me again when i'm coming and i told him when i'll be back. Then, i don't know he said something that caused me to ask him whether he misses me and we laughing and all and he was like i don't have an answer and im like why, just tell me whether u do or not.
And then he's like u think whatever you want, what do u think. And its been days i haven't got my answer and he's not even coming online. I don't know what's wrong, was my question stupid or does he not want to tell me. I know he's busy these days as he told me but why isn't he talking to me? What do u think?
Hi, I met someone online months ago. We play an online game together on facebook. Started talking and he sent me a friend request. He wanted me to give him my number.
But at the time I was not ready just to give it to him since we had just met. So I waited for little over a month to give it to him. Its just weird for me because I have never done the "online" thing lol. He has done all the things that you have listed. We have a lot in common too. His family lives in the same state as me. But he lives in TN. Whenever we talk its like we have know each other for a long time even though we have not.
I don't know what think can you help me? I have been talking to this guy online for a couple of months he was suppose to come meet me a couple months ago but chicked out! I started talking with him again and he was suppose to come see me but did the same thing! He didn't call me its like 2 days before he was suppose to come he started talking really crazy to me! I don't understand why he liked talking with me on the phone for several hours and we would text a lot? Why is he acting like this he has to be hiding something I just don't no what though help?
I have a queastion and need some advice friends? I met a man that is in malaysia, he says he is working ther eand is to return to the states in a few weeks. Thank you. When I was seventeen I joined this online site for those who wanted to hook up. I met him there, and we hit it off instantly. We sent emails back and forth, but I figured that everyone did this on sites like that. Anyway, we both ended up quitting the site for our own reasons, and we began to talk on MSN messenger. Our conversations became more frequent, but we never touched on too personal of questions.
I found it extremely easy to talk to him, and I felt like he actually listened to me unlike most of the guys that I know in real life. I don't know if this is how most guys act online, but I enjoyed the conversations regardless. About a year later I lost my internet, and the computer which had MSN messenger downloaded.
A year or so later, I came back online, and added him to a new MSN messenger screen name where we picked up with our conversations once again. At the time he lived several states away, even though when we first started talking he lived in the same city as me. Well, just recently I found out that he is moving back to the city that I live in. His family lives here, and he is going to stay with them, but it complicates things for me because I had started to get a crush on him over the last couple of months.
I told myself that it wouldn't be too bad because he lived so far away, but now that he is moving back it makes it more difficult. It's very hard for me to tell if he only likes me as a good friend or if he could possibly be romantically interested in me. I feel like I'm not really his 'type', if that makes sense, due to the fact that I'm only twenty and he is twenty-eight.
I'm nervous because I don't want to ruin our friendship, and assume that he likes me as more then a friend, but at the same time I don't want to push away subtle signs as friendship, and lose out on a great opportunity. He normally talks to me within a few minutes of me signing on, and he uses smiley faces like he is happy to see me, but I don't know if he talks to a lot of girls like this or not. We have never met in person, but he asked me to hang out with him a lot when he was back for a week.
He is back in the state he used to live in to tie things up, but when he gets back I'm planning on meeting him. I don't know what signs to look for, and I'm really nervous, but I'm sure that things will be fine. I'm in a complicated situation in where I like him as more then a friend, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way.. I'm sure that a lot of girls like him, too, so why would he be interested in me? Anyway, wish me luck, guys! Ive known him for 2 years and we just clicked. We liked each other and when I came clean so did he.. We took a break for about 6 months and then came back.
I don't know what to think. I still like him ht as Learned the past he doesn't show his feelings easily I met this guy on a chatting site, and we've been chatting for about a year and a half now. It's not exactly a private site, we're in a chat room with a few other users. This chat room is about a topic that we all enjoy, it's a TV show.